Why are More and More Men Seeking Marriage to Women who will Provide them with the Cuckold Lifestyle?
The answers may vary as much as the specifics of the Cuckold Lifestyle that each couple adopts as the terms of their marriage, but for me the most compelling answer is that I want to see my wife sexually stimulated, excited to be the object of other men's sexual desires and feeling free to fuck whoever she chooses, with my approval, encouragement, assistance and/or participation.
I began noticing that instead of being a normal American man and becoming jealous, when my girlfriends cheated on me during my undergraduate college years, I would get more aroused than anything else they ever did. The first time i inserted my erect cock into my girlfriend and realized her pussy was filled with the semen of another man she had been with that evening, i experienced the most intense orgasm of my life up to that point. And she knew it!
But, let's look at the stereotypical American male... When his wife considers fucking other men, he becomes a very jealous man. But think about this for a moment; if a man is the type easily prone to extreme jealousy, it is because he strives to own the woman. This is the type of man that considers his wife or girlfriend to be one of his assets, a form of property, or chattel and should not be taken or used for pleasure by any other men. Because she is "His". This is similar to owning domestic farm animals, livestock or even household pets. In my opinion, this has led to an excessive divorce rate, dissatisfaction with marriage and has not worked out to be a desirable position for either the man or the woman in any marriage since before the 19th century.
Consider the following scenario; a man (friend or stranger) walks up to you, or your wife and tells you/her that he thinks you/she are gorgeous, and so hot he cannot resist. Or, he just starts flirting with the woman (you or your wife) in some other way. American cultural norms will pressure the husband to either act, or become jealous, or in some other way try to squelch his approach and do what some would call a "Cock Block" on the approaching male. Sadly, in our society, too many wives expect this interference any time a man compliments them or says things to them that makes them feel good about themselves WHENEVER THEY GET MALE ATTENTION IN THE PRESENCE OF THEIR HUSBAND.
For me and many other Cuckold Men, not all types of jealousy are completely absent, but sexual jealousy has somehow been transformed into being happy for our wives that she is being complimented, made the center of attention. We are thrilled to know she is becoming aroused when we see her nipples get hard, and we know her pussy is getting wet because an attractive male has found her desirable enough to approach in an attempt to seduce her, to mate with her... That's when I am happy for her!
I know that when men flirt with her in an attempt to seek sex with her, that it makes her feel vital and alive. She gets confirmation that she is so desirable, appearing fertile and sexy in a way that attracts complete strangers, or even men that she knows or works with. The fact that she is so irresistible as to cause a man to take the risk involved in approaching a married woman is yet an even greater boost to her self esteem...... And dammit, everyone wants to be desirable and be reminded of it often! If you are a man, how did it feel the last time you realized a woman was hitting on you? It felt GREAT, and you know it! If you really love any woman, why would you deny them this great pleasure, especially knowing that for most women it is probably a more intense feeling of joy and fulfillment than it is for men.
For many men who call themselves "Cuckold", we have realized that our Testosterone fueled need to control women as if they are collateral property is simply rubbish! Our deep love for the women we worship, AND WHO WE REMAIN EXCLUSIVELY FAITHFUL TO, fuels a desire within each of us to see our wives receive sexual pleasure beyond what any single man can provide. Without seeking any type of reciprocity, we bestow the sexual freedom and license upon our wives to respond to any man they choose in a friendly fashion, and if they feel their sexual instincts are signaling them to do so, to respond to sexual advances from desirable men in a positive manner. Of course, as their husbands, we must remain vigilant and on guard to protect their safety from harm and ensure they have no reason to fear taking on another lover.
For myself and many other Cuckold men, there is a feeling of liberation and exhilaration that comes from seeing our wives become so sexually free that other men want them. I sometimes describe this as similar to the feeling I got when my daughter's boyfriend asked to meet with me, alone, and then asked my permission to propose marriage to my daughter. I was so filled with joy that this young girl that I loved so much had captured the heart of what was obviously a nervous young man, to such a degree that he would suffer the humiliation of submitting himself to her father. When he trembled and in a shaky voice ask for my permission to ask my daughter to marry him, I fought back tears of joy.
Whenever I have seen any man obviously find one of my previous girlfriends or wives attractive, it always served to excite me and arouse me to such a degree that anger was the furthest away of any emotion elicited.
Too many American women are taught by our culture, the schools, magazines, books, TV and movies to think that their boyfriends or husbands should be jealous when other men treat them TOO NICE in their presence, as proof that the man truly is in love with them. Which explains why my girlfriends would break up with me after trying to make me jealous by flirting with other guys, only to find me encouraging them to find out if he was a good fuck.
This sort of learned patterns are NOT NATURAL, it comes from watching TV and motion pictures. It is an unfortunate part of American culture and it promotes that "ownership" mentality that leads to all sorts of negative consequences, such as domestic violence. A married man and woman should feel like they are partners in life, not that they are livestock! Jealousy is not honorable nor a healthy emotion, and it proves nothing as far as genuine and sincere love is concerned. Sacrificing one's own needs to allow your partner to experience joy and pleasure, along with the trust letting your wife fuck other men requires are actually more of indicative of true love than treating her like a cow that the neighbor stole milk from!
I have been married three times, each of my wives were beautiful and I always considered it to be a compliment and an exciting development when other men became interested in any of my three beautiful wives. In my opinion, when men flirt with my wife, or try to seduce her, this means that he's attracted to her. He doesn't want to harm the woman I love, he probably likes her a lot and would like to have sex with her... as he should!
Many men can relate to wanting other men to like their wives in a socially friendly way, but for me, and many Cuckold men, the opportunity for our wives to have sex with such a man is also a way to express his feelings toward her even greater... Especially if we get to watch! Heck, I just want my wife to get laid by as many desirable men as possible in whatever way happens to work itself out. As a Cuckold, we want to be a part of helping our wives achieve stimulation, joy, sexual satisfaction and the sheer vitality a woman feels when she is getting fucked and feels the man pumping his life giving sperm into her womb!
It's also something we can enjoy in common with our wives... kind of like helping your best friend experience the joy of winning a sports championship, except in this case it is the biological DNA embedded drive to get fucked by as many men as possible and enjoy the love life women were intended to have, that includes many male participants.
Cuckold Lifestyle is about men letting their wives be as desirable as they possibly can be, and then fulfill the object of being desirable to the opposite sex!A Cuckold wants his wife to enjoy opening up her mind and her vagina to attention from other men and for her to really enjoy the feelings of desirability and the orgasms from getting fucked really good. In many case, it was me that encouraged a man to initiate his seduction of my wife, and most of the time my wife was so flattered and thrilled by his attention that i would become aroused in return and beg and plead that she fuck him like a female banshee in heat! The sheer joy that comes from seeing your wife's pussy creaming all over a bigger cock than your own while she spasms in orgasmic convulsions is truly inspiring. Enough so to make a good Cuckold Husband want to seek out additional studs to please his beautiful wife by fucking her better than the cuckold could ever delude himself to be capable of.
Yes, if you are a woman who has never experienced the exhilaration of being married to a man that allows your inner cock hungry cum-slut to emerge, the joy of letting your pussy feed on multiple cocks, then you have never felt the most intensely feminine joy nature intended you to experience. So go out there and meet a Cuckold man, go out on dates with him, then find out what you are missing; because it may be the key to a lifetime of happiness that most other men and women never get to experience!