Alternative Lifestyle Glossary of Terms Frequently Used
This Page will be updated as I come across additional terms and their definitions. The purpose is to answer the questions so many of us have when reading or listening to stories and descriptions of various alternative lifestyle choices...FemDom:
A confident, assertive woman who enjoys sexually dominating her husband or boyfriend. Female dominants often engage various BDSM activities and fetishes, such as bondage, ball-busting, corporal discipline, humiliation, face sitting and extended oral sex sessions, forced feminization, enforced chastity, male orgasm restriction, forced anal penetration of her male partner with a strap-on, and frequent and open cuckolding.
A married, sexually uninhibited woman who has sexual relations with other men, with her husband’s knowledge and approval; often while her husband watches or joins in. A woman who actively pursues sexual relationships with other men. A woman who makes herself sexually available to other men. A married woman with a boyfriend or two on the side.
A man whose wife or girlfriend has sex with other men, often with his knowledge, but sometimes without. A submissive husband with a sexually insatiable wife who takes on alpha-male lovers; he often experiences vicarious sexual pleasure from his wife’s sexual adventures with other men.
A man who has sex with the wives and girlfriends of other men, often with the other man's knowledge, but sometimes without. A dominant man who is sexually powerful and may become an alpha-male lover to more than one woman. Bulls often experience increased sexual pleasure from humiliating and dominating a woman's husband and may even allow her cuckold to participate in a manner that increases the humiliation factor.
PussyBoy or Pussy Boi:
A sexually inadequate man, often with a small penis and/or a premature ejaculation problem, who accepts that he has to share his wife with more virile men. In some relationships, the cuckold is required to lick out the spent ejaculate of his wife’s lovers from his wife's pussy, and occasionally perform oral sex on her lovers in advance of the sexual act.
Sex between people of different races and skin colors. The most common combination is submissive white women having sex with dominant black men.
Bull: A sexually dominant male who sexually services married women, and often enjoys humiliating her husband in the process.
Queen of Spades:
A single or married white woman who prefers sex with well-hung, dominant black men. A woman who only dates black men.
A white woman who is intensely, sexually attracted to black men.
A white woman who, due to certain peculiarities in her psyche, only dates and has sex with black men. There are two distinct types:
Type I... fat, unattractive girls with low self-esteem, and little or no education who, rather than date a white guy from the bottom of the heap, goes for a mid-range black man.
Type II... very attractive girls, often blonde, who are making a social statement by dating black men, often to get back at daddy.
A white woman who makes special arrangements, plans, sets aside time and may even travel to certain vacation hot spots (i.e.: Jamaica), in search of having marathon sex sessions and gang bangs with black men. Many Snow Bunnies have mixed race children as a result of these BBC fuck flings, but they often have white husbands who are their cuckold pussy bois.